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i can’t believe anyone gives trans people shit for needing certain items or alterations to feel okay about their gender when there are cis people in the world who literally think “you’re not a real man unless you own a gun”

1) there are trans people who think that too.

2)  Are  you giving people a hard time if they need a gun to feel okay about their gender?

i think my point is that lots of people need certain things in place to feel okay about their gender, cis or trans, but the things cis people need get normalized and the things trans people need get highlighted and used to prove that their gender and lives are invalid, and that’s an absurd transphobic distinction  and i hate it

i am confused about your point

but yeah i do give men (ALL men, cis and trans) a hard time if they think manhood/masculinity = violence and that inflicting less violence makes you less of a man, that’s horrific, get them away from me

Thanks for the clarification.

My point, if there has to be one (rather than: discuss), might be that that I agree the trans people should not be treated in shitty ways; and that associating violence with manness squicks me (as a man).  

So there is a lot of agreement. Yeah.  But I thought your juxtaposition of those was, at best, non sequitur.  

And for the many women that feel “you’re not a real man with out a gun,” do you feel a similar horror.  I know I do. 

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i can’t believe anyone gives trans people shit for needing certain items or alterations to feel okay about their gender when there are cis people in the world who literally think “you’re not a real man unless you own a gun”

1) there are trans people who think that too.

2)  Are  you giving people a hard time if they need a gun to feel okay about their gender?


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My body chain came today in the mail. I am completely and 100 percent satisfied. Are you?

im mad as All Shit

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My body chain came today in the mail. I am completely and 100 percent satisfied. Are you?

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like remember that time, this was a long time ago idk if you guys remember this but it stuck with me, when that person sent me an anon message like “i jerked off thinking about you and now i’m a wreck and i need aftercare” and i was like “listen bub i don’t wanna freak you out when you’re…

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Anonymous said: I'm a huge fan of your blog btw. But I was wondering if you could recommend any switch blogs? I'm a switch myself, and I just can't seem to find any of switches on tumblr. Plenty of sub/LgDd etc. Just no switches.

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hmmmmm i’m p bad at recommending blogs cause i follow like 1000+ and mostly just let a stream of content trickle past my eyes. here’s what’s better, so u can find some:

reblog this post if you’re a bdsm blogger who switches!

Switches Rule!

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